Attention: Men Who Are Desperate To Stop The Downward Spiral Of Their Marriages...

Do You Want to Know Exactly What to THINK,  What to DO, and What to SAY
When She Tells You
"I'm Not IN Love With You Anymore?"

Hey brother-

You may be here for a number of reasons...

Maybe your wife has grown distant and told you that she "needs space."

Or seemingly out of the blue she declares, "This just isn't working..."

Perhaps you've heard the all too common, "I love you, but I'm not IN love with you."

Or she's already dropped the Divorce Bomb on you...

It's like a punch to the gut you never saw coming. You feel blindsided – like the rug has suddenly been pulled out from under you.

And these men don’t understand why it’s happening, what went wrong, who’s to blame or what to think, do and say next...

The Fact Is, Women Initiate Over Two-Thirds Of All Divorces and Nearly 100% of the Husbands Are 

Caught Totally Off-Guard


Do any of these questions sound familiar??

  • How can a woman just "fall out of love?"
  • What am I supposed to do next without looking desperate?
  • Why is she so cold and distant and taking this so well?
  • What can I say to convince her that I'm committed to fixing things?
  • How can I sleep when all I can think about is only seeing my kids part time?
  • Who the hell is she texting or talking to on Facebook?
  • How do I deal with the fear of losing everything?

If you've been asking yourself one or more of these things, then you are in the right place.

And the good news is: you're not alone.

But the BETTER news is that there IS A WAY to immediately stop the nervous and needy behaviors that are making things worse and to confidently begin to change your marriage and yourself for the better...

STEVE HORSMON & TIM WADE PRESENT:

How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb

ONLINE TRAINING COURSE

An In-Depth, Laser-Focused, Intensive Designed To Give You Back Your Masculine Confidence, Clarity, Peace, Happiness, and Mojo When

Your Marriage Is On the Rocks


LIKE "PRIVATE COACHING IN A BOX"


In our individual coaching practices, we have helped countless men become strong, confident, and focused after being crushed by the Divorce Bomb.

 Now, we have taken the same powerful tools and techniques  that  worked for our own clients and put them

directly into this course for you.

So, what's the course like?

Deep, dark and .... funny.

Yes, you read that right. That's our teaching and coaching style. 

  • We will take a deep dive into the psychological and behavioral challenges you're going through
  • We won't shy away from the vulnerable part of the real pain you're going through and how to deal with the "dark" feelings
  • And perhaps most importantly, we help you see the lighter side of the whole situation (there really is one, trust us)

We've been in your shoes and we know why lots of (irreverent) humor, a loving brotherhood and unapologetic optimism about your options is KEY to your thriving in the future.

My marriage is in a much more stable place now...


“Out of the blue one day my wife and mother of our two young kids said to me 'I can’t take this anymore we’re done.'  She said she wanted a divorce. I was devastated. I spent months reading Internet articles and just being passive hoping things would blow over while in the back of my mind blaming my wife for everything.

I am thankful that I came across this course and would highly recommend this program to ANYONE that wants to improve their marriage and more importantly themselves. My marriage is now in a more stable place now. I’ve learned to be aware of how I contribute to my own happiness. There are less arguments and more common ground."

-Gary Q.
Illinois

We know that in order to stop the

emotional free fall you are in, you must:

Create long-term connections with men who are learning to THRIVE after the Divorce Bomb.

Deep, Dark, & Funny

Learn the deep, dark and sometimes AMUSING facts behind this common situation.   

Confident Decisions

Make CONFIDENT, clear, and bold decisions in the coming weeks and months.         

Create long-term connections with men who are learning to THRIVE after the Divorce Bomb.

Learn the deep, dark and sometimes AMUSING facts behind this common situation.   

Make CONFIDENT, clear, and bold decisions in the coming weeks and months.         

How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb

OUR BIG HAIRY BOLD PROMISE

If you follow even HALF of the training, techniques,
and advice in this course, 

YOU WILL BE OKAY.... 

...EVEN BETTER THAN OKAY...

...NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS

I'M GOING TO BE OKAY REGARDLESS OF THE OUTCOME OF MY MARRIAGE


“I purchased the How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb course because I was experiencing fear and anxiety that my marriage was going to be over and wanted to find a way to save it while I began a path to be a better man.

In the course I learned that I am going to be ok regardless of the outcome of my marriage and I learned to to relax and be the man I want to be which allowed me to see a path that will lead to a better life for me, my kids and hopefully my marriage. I learned that there are things out of my control and there is nothing I can do about them. Letting go of those this will allow me to be more empathetic and understanding.

I am now able to understand that is not all about me and that I can only control my responses to my wife actions and decisions.


These are the results I'm seeing now in myself and my marriage: she is willing to spend more time with me, I am more confident in who I am and where this path will take me and I believe I will endure this part of life and come out a better man."

-Chris L.
Indiana

Your Biggest Challenge Is Knowing Exactly What to Do Next

How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb is not based on theoretical ideas or concepts. It is full of practical, time-tested, doable steps and practices

that WILL move the dial for you. 

The lessons in this course are designed to help you reduce your pressure on her and give you breathing room to think and respond instead of just reacting. This will immediately make you feel more confident and start to rebuild trust with her that the changes your are making are real.

YOU WILL LEARN TO:

STOP

The nervous and needy behaviors that
are making things worse.

START

Being a calm and confident man who knows who he is.

Steve Horsmon

STEVE HORSMON (ACCORDING TO TIM):

If you already know Steve Horsmon, then count yourself fortunate. If not, then this is your chance to work with a man who will blow your mind and your socks off at the same time.

Steve used to be a Good Guy who tried to please everyone in his life (except himself of course). Today he is a Great Man who teaches other Good Guys who struggle in their relationships with women to become the confident men that theirs partners crave. From his years of experience as a coach, he knows how women think and the many traps that men fall into.

When it comes to telling it like it is, Steve is a straight shooter with a heart of gold. You’ll never meet a more honest, openhearted man and he generously shares his strength and knowledge with men from around the world.

His genius lies in his intuitive ability to know exactly how to handle relationship situations that baffle so many of us and then communicate those solutions in a no-nonsense way that makes everything crystal clear.

Bottom line: I'm honored to call Steve both friend and colleague as he is one-of-a-kind at being both.

Tim Wade

TIM WADE (ACCORDING TO STEVE):

Tim Wade is a Speaker, Writer, and Coach who helps “nice guys” reignite their natural mojo and step into healthy masculine power without becoming insensitive jerk-holes. Tim has been working as an empowerment coaching since since 2010 and brings 25 years of experience in personal growth and transformation during which he trained with Landmark Education, The Pathways Institute, Insight Seminars, and many others. 

Along with Tim’s professional training, his personal track record of long-term marriage, separation, divorce, and then happily  divorced man gives him an almost endless supply of personal experience when it comes to creating a life that you love and thriving no matter what.

Here's the straight talk: Tim is a man just like the you and me. He's incredibly smart, inquisitive, insightful, wise and just as fucked up as the rest of us. It's from that authentic, humble place where his generosity and brilliance shine.

Tim is a close friend and confidant who I trust without question and I invite you to do the same. When it comes to a model of a man who never stops learning, trying, striving, loving, inquiring and improving... Tim's on my A-list of people I choose in my life. Throughout this course I think you'll find out why you'll want him on your list too.

Steve Horsmon

STEVE HORSMON (according to Tim):

If you already know Steve Horsmon, then count yourself fortunate. If not, then this is your chance to work with a man who will blow your mind and your socks off at the same time.

Steve used to be a Good Guy who tried to please everyone in his life (except himself of course). Today he is a Great Man who teaches other Good Guys who struggle in their relationships with women to become the confident men that their partners crave. From his years of experience as a coach, he knows how women think and the many traps that men fall into.

When it comes to telling it like it is, Steve is a straight shooter with a heart of gold. You’ll never meet a more honest, openhearted man and he generously shares his strength and knowledge with men from around the world.

His genius lies in his intuitive ability to know exactly how to handle relationship situations that baffle so many of us and then communicate those solutions in a no-nonsense way that makes everything crystal clear.

Bottom line: I'm honored to call Steve both friend and colleague as he is one-of-a-kind at being both.

Tim Wade

TIM WADE (according to Steve):

Tim Wade is a Speaker, Writer, and Coach who helps “nice guys” reignite their natural mojo and step into healthy masculine power without becoming insensitive jerk-holes. Tim has been working as an empowerment coach since 2010 and brings 25 years of experience in personal growth and transformation during which he trained with Landmark Education, The Pathways Institute, Insight Seminars, and many others.

Along with Tim’s professional training, his personal track record of long-term marriage, separation, divorce, and then happily  divorced man gives him an almost endless supply of personal experience when it comes to creating a life that you love and thriving no matter what. 

Here's the straight talk: Tim is a man just like the you and me. He's incredibly smart, inquisitive, insightful, wise and just as fucked up as the rest of us. It's from that authentic, humble place where his generosity and brilliance shine. 

Tim is a close friend and confidant who I trust without question and I invite you to do the same. When it comes to a model of a man who never stops learning, trying, striving, loving, inquiring and improving... Tim's on my A-list of people I choose in my life. Throughout this course I think you'll find out why you'll want him on your list too.

How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb

HERE'S HOW IT ALL HAPPENS:

MODULE ONE:

Handling "D-Day" and What You Must Do Now

You're sitting in the fallout of the divorce bomb being dropped on you. What the hell do you do now? We hit the ground running in this module with immediate ways to change your thoughts and action for the better.

Take a Sneak Peek at Module One:

  • How to stop the horror movies in your head (yes, we know all about it)
  • Deal with her ice cold attitude while you're freaking out
  • How to handle your fearful thoughts, anger, depression, and anxiety
  • What you must STOP doing right now and START doing instead
  • Finally relax and create more attraction
  • Quiet your nervous, needy energy so you can stop driving her away
  • How to feel more confident and stop reacting to every little thing she does

MODULE TWO:

How to Re-Build Trust and Attraction

Bickering and arguing KILL intimacy! In fact, research has proved that criticism, stonewalling and defensive reactions virtually guarantee divorce. This module dives deep into WHAT is going on and WHY it happens. Most importantly we give you detailed coaching on HOW to immediately stop the madness and start reversing the direction and build more trust and attraction in the process.

Take a Sneak Peek at Module Two:

  • Why you argue about stupid shit and how to stop it cold
  • How to confront the sex issue and why arguing about it is making things worse
  • How to stop trying to be right and start being more effective when you speak to her
  • How to dance with the drama and be a sexier man in the process
  • The four marriage killers you must stop immediately
  • Stinkin' thinkin':  how to stop the flow of negativity and start creating more connection
  • How to become almost cocky in the face of conflict (in a really good way)
  • The secret about why she isn't even trying and why that's okay... for now

MODULE THREE:

Creating the Relationship You REALLY Want

What do you want? It's a simple but complex question that men have trouble answering clearly, confidently and concisely. And when you don't know what you want you can't describe it clearly or even ask for it. In this module we'll help you get clear about what you want and understand what WOMEN secretly want. We are unapologetically direct about the growing sexual frustration you're feeling and how to effectively deal with rejection and the resentment it creates.

Take a Sneak Peek at Module Three:

  • How to amp up your mojo and be crystal clear about what you really want
  • How to speak boldly about the life you want and expect for yourself
  • What women want and why you must understand her perspective!
  • How to deal with sexual tension and rejection like James Bond
  • Outcome independence: the secret sauce and your ultimate super power
  • Becoming a cool, clear, unapologetic man (and why women find that so attractive)
  • Embrace your confident "inner lion" even in the face of her anger

MODULE FOUR:

Man With a Plan: Getting Clear, Calm and Confident About Your Future

If you've been feeling STUCK IN LIMBO this module is for you. We will have you navigate to a whole new mindset where you begin to feel excited about your future. You must have a plan and you MUST understand your options for creating what you want - no matter what she decides to do. We help you face your fear of the unknown and give you inspiring tools to fill your sails with more confidence and clarity than ever before.

Take a Sneak Peek at Module Four:

  • Create a vision of your life that makes you cry (a good kind  of cry)
  • How to stay strong and focused (even when you're in "limbo land" with her)
  • Why you must be the captain of your own ship and how to navigate toward a better place
  • How to feel calm and confident in charting an amazing course and inviting her into your boat
  • The promise you must make to yourself...no matter what happens!
  • Learn the mantra that will carrying you through this challenging time
  • Embrace your confident "inner lion" even in the face of her anger

YOU ALSO GET ALL OF THESE BONUSES

Deeper Dive Videos:

"Not Suitable for WIFE" Videos

We guarantee that these companion piece videos for each module are unlike anything you will see anywhere else. They  are completely unvarnished, edgy straight talk about the most sensitive situations you may be facing. We don't pull any punches when it comes to things like: 

  • How to get out of "Limboland"
  • How to stop letting her call all the shots
  • Not becoming a "2nd class citizen" in your own house
  • Why it is critical that you do not settle and play small right now
  • What to do when another woman says, "OMG, you're an amazing man!"
  • The cold, hard, truth about handling her cheating ways like a strong, confident man must

Special "Just in Time" Lessons:

How to Deal with Her Affair

Cheating Cheaters and Lying Liars!

Some of you may want to skip right to this lesson because this one issue has overtaken every other thing in your life. We know that it is devastating to find out that she is having an affair (of any kind). In this video we tackle the hard questions that may be plaguing you as you grapple with the awful realization that there is another guy in her life.

Be a Great Dad During Divorce

Father Knows Best (How to Be a Rockstar Dad During Separation and Divorce)

Being a father during this trying time is a particular challenge. On top of everything else, you have children who are looking to you for guidance and support. Learn what to do and not do in order to help your kids cope and even thrive. 

Divorce Help

My Buddy Booze and His Pal Pot

Let's face it, no matter how "amicable" your separation is, divorce sucks. The temptation to numb out by getting drunk or high is huge (and understandable!) Find out why you may want to avoid these two "friends" for a while. 

PLUS MORE EXTRAS:

Secret Facebook Group

As a member of How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb, you get full access to our private men-only Facebook group. In this group, you will be able to talk with other men who are going the same pain and struggle that you are going through. This is where you can post your questions and comments or just vent if you need to. We (Steve and Tim) will also be active in the group, providing support and feedback.

Monthly LIVE Q & A Calls

Every month, Tim and Steve will be LIVE on a video conference, answering your questions, explaining concepts, listening to your story, and sometimes just being there to say, "I get it, I've been there..."

VIP Savings On Retreats & Events

We do 5 to 6 live, in person retreats every year in the U.S. and Mexico for a small, exclusive group of men. These 3 and 4 day gatherings are one of the best ways to continue your growth as an initiated man. As a member of the How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb course you will get early-bird notification and VIP savings on all of our events. Find out more about the retreats here.

Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband

FREE Download of Steve's Book

"Straight Talk Tools for the Desperate Husband: How To Become A Masculine, Confident Man Who Can Fix His Marriage Without Looking Like A Controlling A**hole" is unlike any book you've ever read and a perfect companion piece to this course.

"I couldn’t pass the opportunity to recommend a book that has literally changed my marriage and life. This book could be 10 times as expensive and still be a steal. Steve speaks so truthfully and directly to the problem that most men are too afraid to admit. When I realized that it was my choice whether or not I took control of my life, my marriage, and my job, everything changed and I have not looked back once. This book helped me survive an affair, renew a marriage, and find myself. I cannot recommend it enough. Thank you Steve.

-Graham P.

Your investment for over 8 hours of Training, Teaching, Coaching, and No-Holds-Barred Straight Talk PLUS all the Bonuses, the Private Facebook Group and
Monthly LIVE Q&A Sessions,
is only:

$500

(because $497 is a stupid number)

We wanted to make the price for this course a no-brainer. We know that this an urgent situation for many of you and you could have used this help last week, last month, even last year!

So we want to get you what you need right NOW - without breaking the bank. 

How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb

every guy can benefit from this course whether married or separated, living with your wife, or not.

My circumstances (i.e., wife told me that she wants to separate) was the catalyst that sparked my interest that what I have been doing has not been working and that I could learn a lot from Steve and Tim’s course and from the other men that would be part of the course as well.

Steve and Tim gently set the tone from the beginning. They made it clear that this course would be about improving ourselves as men, and not about bashing our wives. I think every guy can benefit from this course whether married or separated, living with your wife, or not.

You must commit to yourself and put in the work. It feels great to post questions, comments, or concerns in the Facebook group and receive advice and support from men who have been there or are currently working on improving themselves and their relationships.

-Alan M.
Maryland

Men Only Group

By the way...

This course is specifically designed for men. The content, the style, the language and even the sense of humor were all done with men in mind. (Specifically men much like us.)


That being said...

This is NOT a woman bashing club. We love women. We respect women. Our goal is to teach you how to be the kind of man that that women call "amazing."

NOTE: Although women are welcome to purchase this course, the secret Facebook group and LIVE Q&A are for MEN ONLY and we maintain these as completely confidential "safe spaces" where men can openly share with other evolving men. 

Money Back Guarantee

Our 100% NO B.S. Money Back Guarantee

We know from our own experience and the results of our clients that this stuff works. But we want you to be completely at ease in making the decision to invest in this program. 


So here's our NO Bulllshit guarantee: If for any reason you are not satisfied with what you have learned and experienced in the course, please drop us an email at steveandtim@mojopolis.com letting us know within FOURTEEN DAYS of your purchase. That's right, take a full 2 weeks to go through as much of the course as you want and then decide if it helped you like we know it will.

If the answer is "no way", then we'll give you a full refund right on the spot. No questions asked. That's our promise.


How can we make this promise? Because we know...


THIS SHIT WORKS!

Our 100% NO B.S. Money Back Guarantee

We know from our own experience and the results of our clients that this stuff works. But we want you to be completely at ease in making the decision to invest in this program. 


So here's our NO Bulllshit guarantee: If for any reason you are not satisfied with what you have learned and experienced in the course, please drop us an email at steveandtim@mojopolis.com letting us know within FOURTEEN DAYS of your purchase. That's right, take a full 2 weeks to go through as much of the course as you want and then decide if it helped you like we know it will.

If the answer is "no way", then we'll give you a full refund right on the spot. No questions asked. That's our promise.

How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb

Here's Everything You Get in a Nutshell:

(Click on the title to see more details)

Module One - Handling "D-Day" and What You Must Do Now

Module Two - How to Re-Build Trust and Attraction

Module Three - Creating the Relationship You REALLY Want

Module Four - Man With a Plan: Getting Clear, Calm and Confident About Your Future

BONUSES


YOU ARE AT A CROSSROADS

Divorce Decision

AND YOU BASICALLY HAVE 3 CHOICES

1. Change nothing and hope things get better

2. End your marriage now

3. Take on your life and create something new

  • About 80% of men will go with option #1. Fear of divorce and confusion around what to do causes them to either bury their heads in the sand and denying that anything really serious is happening or they wait on pins and needles for their wife to make a move so they can “react.” 
  • Another 15% will make a preemptive strike - either by having an affair or filing for divorce themselves


  • Only about 5% will realize that the only thing they can change is their own behavior and mindset, so they make a decision to become a better man no matter what happens. That's what we call the "5% Club."

WILL YOU JOIN THE 5% CLUB?

How to Defuse the Divorce Bomb

YOUR QUESTIONS ANSWERED

(Click on the question to see the answer)

What is your "success rate" for this course, I mean, how many guys actually save their marriage using your advice?

How can I know if it's already too late for me and buying this course would just be a waste of time?

Should I let my wife know I'm doing this course and share parts of it with her?

​How can an online course have any effect on my marriage when it takes TWO to fix a marriage?

​Will you really just give me my money back for any reason if I don't like this course?

There's No Need to Suffer Alone 
and In Silence...

You're not the only guy who has stayed up late at night, sitting in the dark, secretly googling things like "How to Save Your Marriage" and "She Doesn't Love Me Anymore." 

The only way to break out of the paralyzing fear, sadness, and anger is to get help from those who has already walked this path (and lived to tell the tale!) and to talk with other men who have your back.

We are looking forward to seeing you in the course, hearing your story, and helping you become a confident, unapologetic man.

Steve Horsmon
Steve Horsmon
Tim Wade
Tim Wade

MORE QUESTIONS? PLEASE CONTACT US AT:

steveandtim@mojopolis.com

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